So if women are focusing on disappointment, scarcity and failure in their dating life, then that's what they are going to experience in their dating life.I have found that you can always find someone who will agree with you when you are looking for confirmation about something negative because most people are negative.Most people love to commiserate, and most people really like having others commiserate with them.So the first thing you need to do is to change your mindset. Take A Good Look At Yourself: I want to give you a little bit of a wake-up call.They love to buy into the negative, instead of the positive.I hear so many people who live in Los Angeles tell me that Los Angeles is the worst place to date if you're a woman over 35. It's the biggest city in the country and there's no one to meet if you're a woman over 35? What happens is that people will manifest the things on which they focus. It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract me) in the background.Holding someone close in bed also makes you feel very secure with one another and the relationship. Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything.
If you have had trouble meeting men, I want you to ask yourself if you've really done enough on your part to meet them. Do Your Research: The next thing to do is to do a little "homework." Do some research and find out what things are going on and available in your area. Don't choose things you have no personal interest in just because you think there might be men there to meet.Women not only spent less time looking at a man’s face (when compared with men looking at women); they also moved more quickly onto his other body parts. “So take in her breasts or legs, but don’t dwell on them.” And make the most of your assets, too.“Wear well-fitting shirts, and don’t be shy about using your jeans to show off whatever nature gave you.” OLD: Online dating.“Send a subtle but suggestive text to start with,” Kerner says. Never go beyond the level she’s at; otherwise you risk turning her off.” OLD: Dating One Woman At a Time. “If you want to avoid getting a bad reputation, stick to one date a night, don’t contact other women while on a date, and make sure you make a note of who’s who so you don’t use the wrong name,” Kerner says.NEW: Multi-Dating.● Back in the day, there was only one type of steak on every menu: beef. Now you can see as many women as you can fit into your schedule. But read the small print: The same rules apply to women.